From Germany with Love: How a 5-Year-Old Sparked a Beautiful Idea

Not many families in the UK have heard of friendship books—yet. But in Germany, they’re a cherished tradition. Nearly every child between the ages of 4 and 10 owns one, and they’re lovingly passed between friends, filled with fun facts, drawings, and messages that become treasured keepsakes for years to come.

This beautiful idea had been tucked away in my own memory until one autumn half term, when something truly special happened.

A Visit, a Memory, and a Spark

It was during the school break when my dear old school friend from Germany came to visit me in London, bringing along her 5-year-old daughter, Ella. My friend and I had been inseparable growing up in our hometown—but like many childhood friendships, life took us in different directions. I moved around for studies and work, and over the years, we gradually lost touch.

Now, as parents, we’ve reconnected—and it’s been such a joy to see our children forming their own friendships, just like we once did. During that visit, Ella did something that instantly transported me back in time: she proudly handed over her friendship book to my son and asked if he would write in it.

I smiled so wide. Friendship books! I hadn’t thought about them in so long, yet they were such a huge part of my own childhood. Back in primary school, everyone had one. We’d pass them around, filling them in with our favourite poems, hobbies, colourful stickers and doodles. The excitement of flipping through those pages was unforgettable.

A Treasure Rediscovered

My children were fascinated by Ella’s book. They loved the idea and immediately wanted one of their own! Their enthusiasm reignited something in me.

The next time I visited my parents in Germany, I dug through old boxes in the attic—and there it was: my own childhood friendship book. My heart swelled as I turned the pages, reading the sweet messages and playful answers from friends (and even a few teachers). It brought back so many joyful memories of school days, laughter, and the beautiful bonds of early friendship.

Bringing the Tradition to the UK

Seeing how much my own children loved the idea—and realising how few friendship books are available in English—I felt inspired to create one myself.

I wanted to share this tradition, not just with my children, but with families across the UK. A book that celebrates friendship, encourages connection, and gives children a creative and meaningful way to get to know one another. A keepsake they can look back on with fondness as they grow older.

And so, my Friendship Memory Books were born.

A Heartfelt Thank You

I’m so grateful to Ella—for proudly sharing her book and reminding me of such a special tradition. And to all the families who have embraced it since—thank you. I hope these books bring as much joy to your children as they’ve brought to mine.

Because little friends make big memories—and those memories are worth keeping.